My Wife Doesn’t Say Where She Goes: My Wife Leaves At Night
My wife doesn’t say where she goes - My wife leaves at night.
A very high number of husbands go through periods of self doubt when they begin to ask themselves: "Is my wife cheating?" Literally every marriage goes through various storms, and during such times, you may start doubting your wife's faithfulness. There are several things that may set off your curiosity.
However, you risk doing more harm than good if you start accusing your wife from mere suspicions. The only foolproof way of determining the truth is actually getting her in the act, but this is easier said than done. However, there are some strong signs that will help you to determine whether your wife is indeed cheating. You should, never the less, not jump to conclusions when you see just one or two signs, as there may be other valid reasons.
The following are the combinations that should warn you about what is going on.
She becomes unusually secretive
You may notice that your wife seems to keep some things from you. She may not be free to share some things with you as she used to. Generally speaking, women like to share the details of their lives with their partners, hence if you wife stops letting you into the goings on in her life, there are chances that she does not want you to know something.
She moves away before taking calls
While you should not rush to accuse your wife, when she starts getting fond of taking her calls when she is far from you and in low tones, this is something you should take note of. She may also have her phone always with her, which she will protect from you as much as possible. When this happens, it shows that she does not want you to find out some things that go on with her phone.
She gets unusually affectionate towards you
While you may assume that a cheating wife will always be distant, the opposite can be true. Your wife may begin to develop a lot of interest in you, and this may be because of the guilt feelings that she is trying to hide from you. You may have been arguing with her about her lack of affection, and so you may think that she has at last started listening to what you were saying. However, the truth may be that she is actually trying to distract your attention from her own life. However, you should be suspicious only when this sign is in combination with the other signs mentioned here.
You notice some guilty behaviors
There are high chances that your wife's cheating is bothering her. Hence she may start developing some guilty attitudes. After all, it will not mean that she no longer loves you when she goes out with another man. She will therefore suffer from a guilty conscience when someone else begins to develop affection towards her.
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Having a bad marriage can sometimes go unnoticed by either spouse. Or some couples know that there is a problem but choose to just endure the situation instead of taking steps to save the relationship.
Why? The reasons may stem from the family environment that either spouse has grown up in. A spouse whose parents had a bad marriage often see this as the norm and does not see the need to take notice or may not even be aware that there is a problem. He or she may have a mistaken belief that the situation is normal as he or she has gone through it before. Maybe these misconceptions have been ingrained in the spouse since childhood while seeing his or her parents endure a bad marriage. Thus, having a bad marriage himself or herself does not trigger any reactions.
So what are the signs of a bad marriage?
No intimacy, for one. Whereas before, both spouses can't wait to get their hands on each other, now there is lack of enthusiasm. The simple caresses, the stolen kisses, the holding of hands - all these are gone.
No communication. Communication is vital to bonding. And marriage is all about the union of two people. Once communication is gone, the spouses cannot give themselves the chance to connect and cultivate the marital bond.
Physical and verbal abuse. Abuse is means there is no respect between the spouses. Physical or verbal abuse is a major sign of a bad marriage. Marriage should be founded on respect and love, and when these are absent, trouble ensues.
Couples often fall into the trap of denial. Factors such as fear from reprisal from family and friends can prevent the couple from facing the problem head on and seeking help to save the relationship. Other factors such as thinking of the welfare of the children cause couples to just accept the situation without doing anything about it. These couples do not realize that this does not help their children at all. If left unchecked, the children will grow up in an environment filled with tension and stress and lack of role models to follow in their own relationships later on.
So what should you do? First, talk about it; this brings the communication back into the relationship. When you talk it over with your spouse, it will be easier to recognize that there is a problem. When both of you admit that there is a problem, it will be easier to seek help. Sometimes couples choose to try to save the relationship themselves without seeking help. This is alright - for a first step. But if you find that you are not making headway, then it is time to seek outside help through counseling or through resources that you can tap like self-help books or through the internet.
We are sometimes caught in our fantasies of castles in the sky and think that love will conquer all and things will work out by themselves. Nothing wrong in being positive about it. But sometimes a third party is needed to point out to you and your spouse each of your weak points and analyze objectively what the problem is.
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